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Be happy with who you are!

Jan. 11th, 2008

  • 6:05 PM

Lately, I've been thinking that the universe really does conspire to help me out. I've come to believe that everything in fact is really going to be fantastic, awesome, amazing and joyful in my life. I mean, why wouldn't it?

If it is up to me to decide on the kind of life that I want to have, than why would I decide to have a miserable one? It doesn't make sense to me.
Recently I learned about the law of attraction, which in essence states that your thoughts, beliefs, fears, and insecurities build your reality. When you catch yourself thinking, "God, I really won't do well on this exam", you really won't. When you go for an interview and you think, " I'm the best candidate for this job. I've got all the required qualifications and more than enough experience that they just must hire me", then they really will. It's a self fulfilling prophecy. When you go for that interview and you are so confident and at ease, the interviewer is really going to sense it. Your thoughts are somehow, by means of some mysterious energetic forces, are conveyed to the interviewer. 

Another supportive argument that contributes to the effectiveness of the law of attraction is the placebo effect. Numerous studies have been conducted by psychologists where two groups of people, all having a certain disease, were assigned randomly to either take the real active pill or a placebo (an inert substance that has no medical application whatsoever). All participants were told that they are taking a pill against the disease they are fighting. However, both groups would show an improvement regardless whether or not the pill was active. This explains how our beliefs shape the reality. If I truly believe that a pill is going to help me to get better, it will, even though it is a placebo.

If I believe in something, and I work for it, and I believe that my work is going to pay off, I will surely see the results immediately. 


So, now the question is:
What do I believe in? What is it that I want?

First of all, I want to find my personal legend and make it my way of making a living. That way I'll enjoy my life and what I do to contribute to my personal development and to the society.

Therefore, I must believe that the universe conspires to lead me to my personal legend. And I think it really does. So far, I don't regret any of my decisions. I made all the rights choices. They may have seemed not so rights at the moment when I made them, but they seem very right as of now. Therefore, I am grateful and I believe that the Universe is going to continue to help me out in every decision I make. 

Second, I want to come up with a list of some short term and long term goals that I am deemed to accomplish because the Universe will help me with that.

 Regarding to what those goals are going to be, here is my initial list:

Short term goals:
Learn salsa
Meditate
Prey
Experience Astral Projection
Use a more fluent English vocabulary
Get closer to my dad and sustain our relationship
Read and reflect
Go abroad for studying

Long term goals:
Write a book
Inspire people
Change the society around me for better
Cook very well
Travel the world and learn from every culture
Go on a pilgrimage
Find my own meaning of life
Find someone who I truly loe and who truly loves me; a companion who shares my views and feelings regarding life and society
Teach those who want to be taught


I mights make some additions to these lists.
Now, that the Universe knows what I want, I am sure it will do everything in its power to help me achieve these goals.